Cristal, his long time student with one year tutoring fee un-paid, changed her time from Saturday to Sunday, and then all of sudden cancelled it. He with weird smile opened the door and announced it; well, it was too late to arrange such short notice schedule, and we ended up I still laundry and he is free to do his reading and maybe browsing online. 

I asked him to forward me the monthly expense list because I want to know what exact our living cost is in general. However, it turned out my laptop won't work Excel file at all. Still, I will do it when I am at work. 

He even asked me if he can go on his Thursday Chinese course, which is rather weird because there never had a tangle agenda/course plan but one hour English conversation  that worked as she took free English conversation course without payment, and the other hour he paid her two hours Chinese course fee! Of course, he in his mind knew what he has paid for, and his Chinese still be poor at all after one decade ! I don't know what his real goal was, but it appeared to me that he tutored her English conversation course and even paid her for she took his free English course ! Yes, it was ridiculous. 

I simply knew at least his female teacher and students, even friends all took advantage of him, and he himself hasn't understood at all, or he knew but didn't want to do any change. Now he even won't tell me those names. He is a very kind person but sometimes in a way being fooled. 

I didn't know how I can tell him in a better way, and how many times I need to tell him this cruel fact. Even his female students took advantage of him badly! All my life I haven't heard that such tutoring fee can be piled over one year ! one week 3 to 6 hours without pay! He even dared to tell me how many hours and how much Kristal owned him. She can just message him when she needs him and he followed her to meet her orders. That simple and easy. 

Hue did this to him as well. And he found out her bad manners in a very crude and rude way: he kind of disbelieved this happened, but it revealed so frankly because she didn't even bother to smooth it. There was no manners at all. Look at what he had helped and done for her, time and money. He hardly understood these mean females can be so horrible. But it is fair to say, it is his naive and innocence reached a level no one would believe it can happen. 

As his closest girl friend for over ten years who now lives as his partner, I at times dare to tell him the truth that he has been lied and paid these women money for no reasons. I need to protect him even though myself is not good at saying no. 

I am old, and have not many years to go, how I can protect him from those wolves and foxes in a female human bodies? 



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